Not utterable Question
Have you ever had such question in your mind but you cant pour it out loud? Well, I do, for sometimes. The reasons being might be because I wanna protect the person’s feelings, or I just simply cant bluntly ask because its not the culture. O well, you might get confused why I say this…. Actually I now have a silent question. I cant spell it out.. because I dont know where and how to start. Maybe one of the reasons is that the person I wanna ask to is not open about this matter to me (and my brothers?). Its just not the culture in our family to talk about this issue. Since young, my parents never talk about this issue openly to us. So yeah… I find it hard to question about that.
But on the other hand, I do want to know the exact condition (sorry you might find it confusing to follow my entry, but Im not ready to reveal the issue here). I wanna know if its getting worse or better, so I know how to put myself in.
Bottling up aint a nice thing………………
June 6th, 2007 at 8:32 pm
To be honest, I had a culture shock as well.
My parents simply have their own culture ie a HK culture where people loves all material things and like to brag on and on and they just go on and on angrily about the people doing it. I question them that it is bad to talk about the topic.
Even said so, it is up to us to accept it and show them our views on it as well. They may call me crazy or out of the mind if must.
You will find out what is the real truth once there is the balance of both sides. This is just a starting point.
If argument arise, tell and show them respect, gratitude and patience.
Want more answers, watch the Pirates of the Caribbean - The End of World.
A lot of answers behind the story but I guess it is hard for a normal viewer to understand without experiencing it and you are in examination period as well.
June 6th, 2007 at 8:45 pm
Ehm…Better Consult with Me!!!
Hahaha!
I think it is rightful to know what have been ur rights.
You have rights to ask since you are an adult now. If the askee dun response to ur query, then one has one rights too. You can not blame the person for not telling.
And if it makes you feel better, plan the thing well. Dun suddenly jump to the topic! Use statement rather than question. Coz people dun like to be interrogated!!!
It is best if you present a brief summary of what has bothering you with no open question in the statement.